Relationship Advice-Break Down the Communication Barrier
Have you ever tried to communicate with someone you’re dating about how HE is feeling? It’s not usually too easy to pry feelings from the depths of a man’s mind, underneath all the football, baseball, cars and “man things” that take up the space in there. The thing is - if you are at the point in your relationship where you are wondering what your boyfriend is thinking and feeling about you and your relationship right now… then it might already be TOO LATE.
Not knowing what he feels about you is a warning sign that you and your boyfriend do not have the kind of communication that it takes to make your relationship work. I know what an awful feeling that is, and I am sure you do not want to go down that road either.
But its not all about just feeling horrible, either. You could lose your man if the communication does not correct itself between you. Your boyfriend may already be thinking about LEAVING and you won’t even know it.
So what can you do to make this right? I am going to give you a few simple pointers on action steps you can take TODAY to start bridging the communication gap.
The first step toward making your relationship better is to make YOU better. You need to quit trying to get inside his mind and instead focus on understanding what is going on in your own mind. You must learn that you are in complete control of your actions and reactions at all times. Learn to master this control and master yourself before you move on to any of the other steps.
Secondly - you need to think and act in a positive fashion. If you react negatively to him by becoming clingy or whiney when you think something is wrong, you are only going to drive the stake deeper into the heart of the vampire if you know what I mean. If you expect the worst - you will get the worst.
Third - start trusting your intuition to tell you what he is really saying. Look deeper than the surface. Trust in your intuition and look at all the signals he is in you. Instead of voicing all your questions, internalize them, keeping them in the forefront of your mind while you look for your intuition to guide you to correct answer.
Fourth - you need to learn to INTERPRET your intuition. Say you have a bad feeling that your boyfriend is up to something. He acts strange and secretive. You might interpret his behavior and your intuition to say he is cheating on you. But maybe it will turn out he is throwing you a surprise party or drumming up a nice romantic get-away.
In an example like this — you jumped to an incorrect conclusion about what your intuition was telling you. Instead you need to learn to look at all the clues and allow the situation to play itself out while listening to your intuition and not letting negative experiences mask what your intuition is actually telling you. These things will all help you to have more effective communication and a better relationship. To read more relationship advice or get dating tips for women, click on the link below.
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